Ichoubafubuki

randon comments and thoughts from my travels

susuharai — housecleaning

susuharai is the word the Japanese use for the thorough housecleaning that is required before New Year’s … to get rid of the old years dust and dirt so you don’t carry it in to the New Year. They probably have a different word for “coming home from a trip to Japan and turning your house upside down to clean it” … but that’s what I’m doing.

I always want to “de-clutter” when I come home from Japan. To get rid of the mundane and keep the things that really matter. This may be partially driven by jet lag/insomnia … It’s 6:30 in the morning and I have already sorted my drawers in my dresser and have a pile of stuff to go to good will. Last night I cleaned my office and rearranged furniture. Who knows what I’ll get in to today.

It’s still a culture shock being here, especially when doing any shopping or riding public transport. Let’s start with the trains, or should I say Japanese public transportation in general. First of all, they are clean. And they are convenient, i.e. run frequently and get you where you need to go. In some places, even the buses have electronic display boards at the bus stops to tell which bus will be arriving next. Is that concept even conceivable to SEPTA? or any other US transportation authority???

My favorite part of the Japanese system are the commuter payment cards. Look like a credit card. You put money on it using an automated machine in any train station, swipe it getting on and off the train platform. It knows where you got on, where you got off, and charges you accordingly. No weekly SEPTA  trans- or trail-pass (I’ve never figured out which is which) that is only good that week with a use it or lose it proposition. I’ve had my PASSMO card for several years now and just charge it up when I arrive in Japan. One other things about this payment system … you can use the same card to shop at various places and even use it on some vending machines.

Then there is the view while riding the trains. You don’t see trash, graffiti and burned out buildings along the train routes. There is no graffiti. None. The network of Japanese trains criss cross the country through big cities between skyscrapers, through smaller cities and towns with stores, restaurants, florists, etc near the stations, or behind rows of neat houses or industrial buildings. In between the towns are homes and rice paddies. Seems like every inch of country that isn’t occupied by a building has a rice paddy on it.  Where are the dilapidated burned out building in Japan? There must be some. In the 27 years I’ve been traveling to Japan, I haven’t seen them yet …maybe it’s because we flattened much of the country in World War II and it’s been rebuilt. Or maybe it’s because they don’t have much space, only 20% of the land mass is habitable, and can’t just up and move so they take care of what they’ve got.

And let’s not even talk about shopping and my favorite subject to rant about … service. I was in a store yesterday and the sales clerk seemed annoyed that my friend asked her a question about the product she was buying. Things you buy are thrown in a plastic bag and tossed across the counter. Although I do have to give kudos to the young man at Home Depot yesterday. Dangerous place for me in this funny state I’m in … the cleaning has extended to the garden which, after four hours on Saturday with my two yard helpers, is starting to look nice again but, of course, needed a few more plants and a picnic table. Home Depot had a great deal on a glass top table which I wasn’t about to drag on to a cart by myself. Sigrid thought she’d like one too. So this nice young man loaded two tables on a cart for us, then returned one because she changed her mind, then made sure I got mine to the register OK , AND hung around to help us load the car. And, he didn’t expect, or accept, a tip. There is hope …

yoroshiku,
j

ittekimasu — I’m leaving

ittekimasu — literally means, “I’m going, I’m coming.” It’s a phrase used by Japanese when they leave their home or office with the intent of returning. It’s appropriate for me today … I’m not sure whether I’m coming or going. I’m in that bifurcated state I reach at the end of any of my trips to Japan … I’m looking forward to going/coming home to the US, to my wonderful friends, cats, house and garden. I’m really sad to be leaving my wonderful friends and places here. I called with Shoko yesterday morning and found that her daughter and grandchildren were there. I heard the Japanese phrase that always brings tears to my eyes … Jean-san … from those darling young voices.

So I use ittekimasu definitely with the intent of returning.

It has been a busy, busy time these past four weeks. Only four weeks? Four weeks already? Enjoyed working with the students, our Japanese colleagues and clients in Kobe. Through my travels with Carol I have experienced the wonder and the confusion of coming to Japan for the first time. She’s been a great traveling companion … I take her all the places I like to go and she loves them too.

Yesterday we wanted to have a relatively lazy day — one when we only walked about 3 or 4 miles instead of 10 or 12. We walked over to the Keisei train station so we could buy our tickets for the Skyliner to the airport, and then decided to wander up the path through Ueno Park so I could show her how to get to the National Museum. To our delight we wandered into an “ice” festival on the plaza in the park.

There were huge chunks of ice set up as bars. Waiters in formal white jackets mixed drinks and served them in cups made of ice. Beer and soda were served in mugs made of ice. They had a snow machine that they sprayed on the crowd every once in a while. It was crowded and people were having a ball. So were we. I had the most delicious Coke Zero I’ve ever had from one of those ice mugs.

There was a film crew there trying to capture a short clip of a young woman drinking something from one of the ice mugs then saying oishii! delicious! Not sure how many times she tried it, but while we were watching something always seemed to go wrong … one time the mug starting leaking in the middle of the taping and she stood there trying not to laugh as the drink dripped on to her foot. From what we could learn from talking with people, the event was sponsored by an ice company in Tokyo. Whatever — it was a great, great thing to do on a hot, hot day.

In the afternoon we took a boat ride on the Sumida river from Asakusa to Hamarikyuen Park. It’s a great way to see Tokyo’s waterfront and the park was first created by one of the Shogun’s in the 1600’s. It’s one of those islands of quiet beauty in the middle of this large noisy city. We took a long slow walk around it, taking the opportunity to sit now and then and just be there.

Dinner was at our favorite yakitori (grilled chicken) restaurant in the Ginza. I had forgotten that they close off several blocks of the Ginza area to car traffic on the weekend so the streets become a huge pedestrian mall. The streets were still busy with all kinds of people at 5:30 PM when we got there. Before we went in to dinner, I was taking pictures of Carol in front of the paper store, KyuKyodo. A nearby pedestrian said that it was a very famous and expensive store. But, he said, the merchandise was of superb quality. “Yes, I know,” said Carol. “We’ve been here twice. That’s why she’s taking my picture.”

The staff of the restaurant recognized us. I told them it was our last dinner in Tokyo. They weren’t busy and we were in no hurry, so they let us sit and eat slowly and order this and that for a couple of hours. And drink several glasses of cold sake. They all came to the door to wish us well and say, itterasshai. It’s the standard reply to ittekimasu meaning, “Go but you will be welcome back.” I told them I’d tell all my friends about them … so if you are ever in Tokyo make sure to eat at Jidoriya on B2 at Ginza Core. It’s right across from KyuKyodo, a great place to shop!

So it is with a full heart that I say once again to Japan, ittekimasu. I definitely will be back. Shoko already has more adventures planned.

yoroshiku,
j

jishin — earthquake

So my last full day in Japan for this trip begins with an earthquake — at 7:19 AM JST, magnitude 4.3. Enough to shake the hotel and make you wonder … was that it? But I’ve never been in Japan that I haven’t felt an earthquake of some level. The islands lie on top of multiple faults and there are frequent little earthquakes. Geologically speaking, better that than one large fault building up pressure.

It was an earthquake in OkuNikko that brought Shoko and I together. So it seems appropriate that we journeyed to OkuNikko on this trip, and took a ride on the sightseeing boat where we first talked with each other25 years ago. 25 years ago??? shinjirarenai … can’t believe it.

Carol and I left Tokyo very early Thursday morning and took the train to Nikko a town north of Tokyo best known for Toshogu, Japan’s most lavishly decorated shrine and the mausoleum of Tokugawa Ieyasu, the founder of the Tokugawa shogunate. Talk about sugimasu — lavish doesn’t really do it justice. Just too, too much ornamentation that seems to go on and on and on … 

This was the first day the weather really didn’t cooperate with us. As we started walking up the hill to the shrine we heard thunder and by the time we got to the first temple it was pouring rain. There were clumps of people under trees and on verandas. We found a gift shop — wouldn’t be a Japanese holy place without at least one gift shop — and bought clear plastic umbrellas for 500 Yen.

We met Shoko at the train station about 3:30 and boarded a bus toward OkuNikko — up the mountain on the road which has a total of 48 hairpins turns. I didn’t realize when I sat next to Shoko in the front seat how much like a carnival ride it would be … as the front of the bus seemed to hang over the precipice before it made every turn. I think I left a hand print in the arm of that bus seat.

We made it to Lake Chuzenji and were off to see the spectacular Keogon waterfall … in the pouring, and I mean pouring, rain. We were not dressed for a monsoon. Sandals and thin socks are not really good footwear for such an occasion. Our 500 Yen umbrellas weren’t very strong. But it was on the agenda and Shoko took off in that direction. One good thing about having Carol here with me is that I now have a witness that I’m not making this stuff up. The waterfall was indeed beautiful … the pictures didn’t come out so well … camera lens fogged up and had drops of water on it.

At least Shoko conceded that we shouldn’t do any more sightseeing there or wait for the next bus, and called her friend Mr. Suzuki (who is a whole ‘nother story … she met him hitch-hiking, trying to flag down someone to give her 88 year mother and 86 year old aunt a ride). He kindly came from the inn where we were eventually going to be staying to give us a ride. On the way back to the inn though, still pouring rain, we stopped to view a waterfall … at the bottom of it. At the top of it. By the time we got to the inn, my shoes were soaked, my pants were soaked. My fingers were frozen. We were up at about 5000 feet altitude about now … spring hadn’t even arrived … the trees were still in bud. At least the inn had a hot springs. Ah. A soak in the onsen. Warm again.

The evening was a magical night. A wonderful dinner. Everything beautifully arranged. The best tempura I’ve ever eaten … so light. Who knows what those green things were that were dipped in a super light batter and lightly fried. Sake. And Carol experienced one of those magical, Japanese gift encounters — Mr. Suzuki gave her a crane kite — which is a story in itself.

Next day, Shoko and I took an early walk before our beautifully presented and delicious breakfast. Even though we would have been happy to stay there several days, duty and other reservations called so we headed back toward Nikko … with a stop in Chuzenji for a ride on that sightseeing boat that we boarded 25 years ago … never knowing then how it would impact our lives.

There’s lots more to talk about but it’s time for breakfast. And I’m in that yo-yo place of looking forward to going home and, at the same time, hating to leave. So I want to savor every last minute of this final day in Japan.

yoroshiku,
j

Three at the falls (L); Shoko and I on the boat (R)

sugimasu — too much

sugimasu is added to Japanese verbs or adjectives when there is just too much of whatever verb or adjective it is attached to. For example, tabesugimashita — I ate too much. It’s a good word for the past few days.

I think I last left you with pictures of Carol and I in kimono. That was … what day? I think last Monday. We finally had to take them off and get back in our regular clothes to get on with the trip. After a walk through the garden outside the Imperial Palace in Kyoto (actually disappointing) and a trip to a sublime garden, Shoei-en, at a home owned by Higashi Honganji, the big Buddhist Temple, we boarded the Shinkansen to Tokyo.

Tuesday we took a long, relaxed walk around the famous lily pond in Ueno  in the morning, met a former student of mine for lunch, then went to the top of the City View building in Roppongi Hills, 57 stories high and the only place we feel we got “ripped off” by a high entrance fee that didn’t deliver. They have changed the experience since I was there last — added an open air roof deck that costs extra, and blocked off much of the 360 degree view of the city. Oh well, some things do change in Japan!

Disappointed with that we went down underground by at least 6 or 7 stories to board one of the newer subways to go to the Ginza and my favorite store in Japan — Kyukyodo — a place with the most exquisite papers you have ever seen. We wound up spending at least two hours there, as Carol went from aisle to aisle saying, “Oh my! Look at this one! Jean, come look at this!” We left a little (sugimasu) American cash there. Afterwards we had our one splurge of a meal at a yakitori (grilled chicken etc) restaurant nearby. Delicious food and sake and fun exchange with the chef.

Next day gardens and walking, walking, walking (sugimasu). A long slow meander through the garden at the New Otani Hotel. Then, a walk around the Akasaka Imperial Palace which I had mistaken on the map for another accessible garden which this definitely was not.  It’s a big place … and walking around the perimeter is a l-o-n-g walk. Meanwhile, we were convinced the guards were keeping an eye on the two foreign women who had tried to get in. It was a very long walk and hot. We needed food. And the only thing we could find that was open was a Japanese Italian bistro by the subway station we finally made it to. Mistake. Absolutely the worst meal of the trip.

But as always in Japan, it’s a combination of high and lows, the sublime and the ridiculous. We went from there to the East Garden of the Imperial Palace in Otemachi. Like stepping back into the 17th or 18th century in the middle of 21st century Tokyo. An oasis of peace and quiet. Don’t remember dinner, not sure we had any. The spaghetti bomb was still sitting heavy in our stomachs.

Thursday morning we actually got up very early, checked out of the inn, took our bulky luggage to the hotel we had booked for our last (sniff, sniff) weekend and caught an early train for our overnight in Nikko with Shoko … talk about sugimasu… the temples at the Togu Shrine are totally too much, as was the pouring rain we walked around in to see the scenic beauty … the trip was a real Japanese magical mystery tour. But I will continue with that story next time … the day is getting on and we have more things to see and do!

yoroshiku,
j

kimono — traditional Japanese women’s attire

They say a picture is worth a thousand words … so here are a few pictures of Carol’s and my visit to the Nishijin Textile Center in Kyoto. For 3600 Yen (about $40) you can “rent” a kimono for a day. They not only dress you in it, but they let you out of the building.

At Nishijin, on a bridge and a bench at a nearby shrine … where I must say we caused quite a stir.

What an adventure!

yoroshiku,

kankounadokoro — tourist attraction

Up and out of the hotel early yesterday morning. Wanted to get to Kiyomizudera before the thousands of other people who would also be headed there. It was about 8:30 AM when we got off the bus and started up the street to the temple, along with about 50 other people.

“Now Carol. If you stop and take a  picture of every interesting flower pot, it’s going to take us a very long time to get anywhere!”

There were already about 5 or 6 buses in the parking lot, which, at this time of day was only about 1/3 full. Navigating the narrow shopping street in front of the Temple wasn’t bad though. There was still room to walk.

“Let’s shop on the way down the hill.”

The temple wasn’t terribly crowded yet so we had an opportunity to take off our shoes and wander through one of the sanctuaries. We got in line behind the school children for an opportunity to kneel before and ring a huge singing bowl. You could feel it’s vibrations throughout your body.

Back outside on the veranda we were approached by a group of school children who asked us to take a picture. We thought they wanted us to take a picture of them. No. They wanted to take their picture with us and enlisted the services of one of the guards to do so.

No sooner had we finished with that encounter then another group of school children approached us. We obliged. Engaged the same guard as the photographer. Took lots of pictures with everybody’s cameras.

Now, this was fun but we really didn’t want to spend our entire day on the veranda posing with different groups of kids. We sprinted around the corner after this last encounter where there was a booth selling trinkets. Oh, and there were postcards on the window and Carol had been looking for postcards. However, when she asked about buying these, the monk behind the counter laughed and said, “Those are not for sale. They’re mine.”

Sans postcards, we continued to wander slowly along the upper path. It was very quiet except for the song of the nightingale. We found a bench where we could sit among the greenery and have the drinks we’d brought with us. Ah, … so peaceful. Then a group of about seven school children came down the path. When they saw us they got very excited. “Oh no,” we said, “Here we go again…”

As they approached us one of the students took a folder out of his bag. He then said, in hesitant English, “Could we ask you some questions. It’s our homework.”So we told them our name and where we were from and our favorite sports. In return, we asked them all kinds of questions, gave them a hard time because they didn’t write the answers in English, and, of course, took pictures of them and us and the homework. Many thank you’s and they were off down the path again.

Ah, peace again … until we looked up and saw another group of children with a folder headed our way.  We didn’t quite get away … this group was from a school in whose windows you can see the reflection of Mt. Fuji. Not a bad view. After this we gave up on the idea of a leisurely stroll around the gardens. “Let’s get out of here before we become a permanent part of the attraction!”

The rest of the day included shopping, eating, geisha chasing (trying to get pictures), walking, shopping, a much needed rest stop in Maruyama park, more walking, cat encounters, more walking, a climb up a whole lot of very tall steps to the temple Chionin, and a taxicab to Shosei-en garden which was closed so we went to HigashiHonganji. By the time we got back to the hotel we figured we’d been on our feet for about 10 hours. A nap was definitely next on the agenda.

Lots more … but I’ll save the story of the traveling french fries for another entry.

yoroshiku,
j

koukan — exchange

So the trip has changed … no longer focused on the business project. Now I’m a “tourist” in Japan with my friend Carol. Actually I should say I’m a tour guide in Japan. This is Carol’s first trip to Japan so I’m taking her on “Jean’s wandering around tour of Japan.”

In the 35 years I’ve known her she had never expressed an interest in coming to Japan … until this past February. She was visiting an exhibit of Japanese kimono and I got a message on my cell phone . ”Jean, I want to go to Japan!”

So I emailed her, “I’ll be there in May. Want to join me after my work is done?” The answer came back quickly: “YES!!!!”

Over the next three months there were flurries of email about dates, travel arrangement, what to bring, where we’d go, how to arrange to get a Japanese cell phone. After I got here I sent her an email with step by step instructions on how to get through Narita (Tokyo airport) and on to the train to Shin-Kobe. And then, last Thursday night, at 6:58 her train arrived and she came through the exit gate a few minutes later. Of course, she didn’t know that she had to put her ticket in the turnstyle as she exited so was stopped by a railway employee. But with a few laughs, we got that sorted out and here she was. Here we were — in Japan! Who would have ever thought …

After a quick dinner at my favorite sushi place next to the hotel — Sakura Suisan — we had an early evening. After breakfast the next day and, of course, a visit to the Iron Man (tetsujin) statue, we took the train over to the Motomachi station where I needed to meet up with the students for their final presentation. It’s also close to a major shopping street where Carol could wander around. One of the first orders of business was to take Carol to a bank to exchange some US dollars to Yen. We went in to the Mitsubishi bank across the street from the Starbuck’s where we had coffee.

I asked the receptionist about changing money. Yes, the banks actually have reception staff (more than one person) who help you figure out where you need to go and who you need to talk to. The answer was that we couldn’t change money there but … she whips out a hand drawn map of the area, takes us outside with it and explains that we have to go to another Mitsubishi bank building around the corner and go up to the fourth floor to the exchange counter. No problem. So after many thank you very much’s and much bowing we make our way around the block.

Yes. There’s another Mitsubishi bank building. We are guided to the elevators by ladies in uniforms with cute little red hats. Up to the fourth floor we go. Piece of cake, right? Well … not exactly. When we get off the elevator we are in a hall. No signs. No staff. Just a couple of long white halls with a lot of locked doors. Fortunately, someone came out one of those doors, and I asked her about the exchange counter. She pointed to a small red sign down the end of the hall. Oh. OK. Many thank you very much’s and much bowing.

The exchange counter is a small room  — about 10 by maybe 15  — divided in half lengthwise by the counter. The customer side was bare except for three stools along the end wall.  Carol and I were the only people in that half of the room.

The other side of the room had a glass window along half of it, the rest just being a wall. Behind the glass were three ladies at desks, one of whom got up to help us. She helped Carol fill out the form,  took her money and her passport, put them in a small tray, and then gave Carol a small laminated card with the number 36 on it. We looked at it quizzically.

“Please wait a moment,” she said, and motioned toward the three stools. She then turned around and handed the tray to one of the other women. Carol and I sat down on the stools thinking we would have to wait a while.

About 30 seconds later (not even), the woman came back to the window and said expectantly, “Number 36, please.” We looked at each other, we looked around the room. Yep. We were still the only people in there. ”Guess she means us!”

Oh, yes. I knew this was going to be an adventure!

yoroshiku,
j

isogashii — busy

So it’s been work, work, work the past few days. totemo isogashii — very busy

I gave my supi—chi (speech) at Kwansei University Tuesday night from 7 to 8:30. It was titled “A random walk from chemistry to marketing … a career transition story.”  That was fun and very different than any presentation I’ve done before. Dr. Sato and I tagged teamed … I did my honorific introduction in Japanese then begged off because my Japanese is not good and Sato sensei translated for me for the rest of it. So I’d talk for a couple of sentences and then he would translate. Makes for a very different speaking dynamic then I’m used to. At one point I said one relatively short sentence — “I had to opportunity to go to work at Xerox’s Palo Alto Research Center” and then Dr. Sato talked for about 5 minutes.  When he was done I said, “Did I really say all that?” Everyone laughed. He had given then a history of Xerox PARC as well.

Afterward there were the mandatory libations. Six of us went to a Beer garden where we started with Belgian beer and moved to Japanese sake — I wouldn’t recommend that combination too often — and sunaku (snacks) — fried onion, garlic fried rice, cabbage, deep fried spaghetti noodes … it was a very odd assortment of food and not a lot of it. Fortunately Sato and Tsujimura were both riding the same train back to Kobe that I was so I didn’t have to figure it out for myself. It was very late by the time I got home.

As a result I was moving rather slowly yesterday morning. Talked to the leader of the student team I am advising who said they were all working individually in the morning and were meeting in the afternoon to put it all together and see where they were. Fine by me.  I’d meet them later, around 4 PM.

I spent the morning doing some errands and sorting through the chaos in my hotel room. Then met with the other student team just to see how they were doing and give them some moral support. Arrived at our temporary “office” — a room on the third floor of the client’s office building — and we worked intensely on the presentation due Friday afternoon until 8 PM last night. We were all brain dead by the time we finished.

Had dinner at the sushi place next to the hotel. They recognize me now. I’ve eaten there four times. I did see something interesting on the way there. As I was walking from the train station toward the hotel I heard a police siren. I looked over at the main street and saw two people on a motorbike speeding down the street with a police car in pursuit. At first I wasn’t sure the police were chasing the motorbike, but then I saw the motorbike come flying out of a side street and run a red light with the police car right behind it. They went down a few blocks and turned right and disappeared from sight. Shortly thereafter, I arrived at the walkway between the hotel and the building where the sushi restaurant is located. A group of young people were there looking down the walkway. All of sudden, the motorbike comes flying down the sidewalk right in front of us, went off the curb to the main street and zoomed away. The police car wasn’t following it through the mall. Most interesting aspect of that whole scene … the person driving the bike was a woman!  Guess she got away.

yoroshiku,
j

arekore — this and that

Actually in Japanese it’s that and then this but that’s irrelevant, as will be most of this entry.

The trains: Last night the trains were running late. O!M!G! Did you here that? The trains were running 4 minutes late!!! Rare. Very rare indeed.

Young women on the trains: It takes them the entire commute to put on all their makeup on. I never knew you could put eye liner and mascara on for 35 minutes or that you needed so many different kinds of brushes and containers to do it.

Cell phones in Japan: unfortunately the politeness around cell phones is dropping off. I’ve heard conversations not only on the train — where you used to be told to put your phone in “manners” mode — but also in sublime Japanese restaurants where the jarring ring is so out of place.

Cell phone charms: There are more cell phone charms in Japan than Kellogg’s has lucky charms. Everything fromtemple charms and rhinestone teddy bears to jewel studded straps and macrame with precious stones. Starbucks has one with a cup of Starbucks on it. I have one of those. And there’s  a set of eight “Woodstock’s round the world tour”, all of which I happen to have since they came with the lemon soda I’ve been drinking.

And talking about Starbuck’s, can we import some of the service I’ve received at Starbuck’s here back to the US? Please?

And my Japanese “find” of the past few days — a very simple thing. It’s been raining very heavily here the past two days. But does that stop people from buying their omiyage (gifts to take home) at various tourist locations or bakeries. Oh no. And how do they keep things in pristine condition until they get home? The stores have clear plastic bags that they slide over shopping bags or purses to keep things dry. How simple is that? how thoughtful?

Enough silly stuff for today. Off to give my speech at Kwansei University tonight. This will be an interesting experience I’m sure.

yoroshiku,
j

rotenburo — outdoor spa (hot spring)

The Japanese love getting into hot water … and it’s not just the nightly bath (o-furo). Japan being a volcanic island has a myriad of hot springs (onsen) throughout the island. And there are hotels and inns and public baths built around them. Most of the hotels and inns have private onsen but you can usually buy a day pass to use their baths. Today most of the onsen are segragated — men and women go into separate changing areas and soak in different and sometimes neighboring pools.

Arima Onsen is one of the oldest towns built around a hot springs. In the early 8th century, a Buddhist monk is credited with founding the town, which was rebuilt many times over the centuries and was a favorite of one of the early shogens. Today, despite the traffic — buses, car, and foot — is still has the character of a 19th century village.

I traveled there by train from Kobe city … about 45 minutes. I walked up the hill looking for the SogoAnnaiSho (visitors center) where Shoko and I planned to meet. When I asked a gentleman standing on a corner where it was, he said, Koko desu — right here! Shoko arrived a few minutes later. So good to see her. She talked with the people at the information center and came up with a plan for our two days in Arima … starting with a short walk to the public onsen, one that is essentially free or really cheap.

I love the ritual. First you get undressed and put all your stuff in a locker, if they have one, or a basket. You have a towel about the size of piece of copier paper — well, a little bigger, but not much — that you use to cover up whatever you think you should try to cover and you head to the washing area. Meanwhile nobody “looks” at anybody else, but I’m sure everybody sees everything. Here there are individual hand showers with stools and buckets in front of them where you scrub yourself down. Most places provide soap and shampoo now so you can get yourself really clean. When you’ve completed that phase, you can enter the true “onsen” — the tub of hot water.

Now these “tubs” can vary from simple stone or wooden pools to elaborate pools with waterfalls. The public ones are usually simpler … a large tub, maybe some jacuzzi style jets, but usually pretty plain. But the water is hot and it feels wonderful to just float and let the stress or the aches and pains melt away. After soaking for a while, you get out, wash off again, get dressed, do your hair, and go relax with a cup of tea or something. That was our first onsen of our Arima visit.

The second was at a famous and expensive hotel (where we were not staying) where she had booked us for use of the onsen and then a traditional kaiseki Japanese dinner. This place was amazing. It sits on top of a hill overlooking the mountains and north Kobe. To get to the onsen we went down two floors on an elevator, walk down a long hall with glass on both sides overlooking a magnificent Japanese landscape, down another flight of stairs to the onsen. Here we actually got bath towels in addition to the small towel. And after the washing ritual, we stepped into a beautiful stone tub looking out at a hillside covered with bamboo. Later we moved from that tub to a tub that was outside behind a bamboo screen  — a rotenburo, outside onsen. The cool air was a wonderful contrast to the hot water. The view was magnificent. Shoko and I relaxed and talked about what had been happening in our lives in the past year.

We had to leave there eventually, had dinner, and got a ride to our much less expensive lodgings. And even there, no bath in the room. First thing in the morning we went to an Onsen on the ground floor. This one was small, but had a beautiful small tub looking out at a garden.

After a lazy morning — it was pouring rain — we got a ride in to the village to GoShoBou Hotel and Onsen where Shoko had made arrangements for use to use the onsen and then have lunch. This was the best. After taking the mandatory scrub, you entered the onsen through a long hall where the water got gradually deeper until you were in a large square tub with flat marble ledges around the outside. When I entered the tub, there were two Japanese women who motion to me to keep going around the bamboo screen that was hanging down. Around the screen was another rotenburo.  The tub was under a roof but open to the outside where you could relax and watch the wind blow through the bamboo and the rain pour down. It was sublime. One caveat was that the men’s onsen was on the other side of a low wall on one side of the women’s pool. Oops. Better to come out here low in the water, rather than walking tall! But it allowed couples who had come to the place together to talk to each other and even hold hands across the wall.  Don’t know how long we stayed in this one but neither of us was in a hurry to leave.

We finally had to. And after a long relaxed lunch, the hotel driver dropped Shoko at the bus station to get a bus back to Osaka to meet up with her mother and cousin before they go back to Saitama tomorrow. They dropped me at the train station where I headed back to downtown Kobe. I feel more relaxed than I have in a long time.

yoroshiku,
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